Showing posts with label Weddings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Weddings. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

The Pamamanhikan Story

I was just browsing my site, when I realized I owe you guys, our pamamanhikan story. So here it is. It happened last January 3, 2011. Did you know that Mr. J initially thought of January 3, 2011 as wedding date? How cool is that?!



Unlike most "pamamanhikans," there are no awkward silence in ours since our families have met already and should I say, have very well bonded since then. It's just that, it's the first time for our family to experience pamamanhikan, so we are kinda clueless! The funny thing, is that when J's dad asked my dad for permission in J marrying me, J told me that my dad did not answer. Hahaha! What is "lutang"? Very much like the story of J's proposal, where J claims that I did not answer YES!

A few more chitchats and laughters, and after we finished the sapin-sapin, we headed to Shakey's to eat pizza and mojos. Just because J is craving for it, see how light and easy-going our pamamanhikan is! I love our families, miss them terribly!!

Monday, April 11, 2011

Catholic Engaged Encounter - Singapore

LOVE IS NOT A FEELING, IT'S A DECISION

We just spent one of the most fulfilling weekends of our lives as a couple last April 8 to 10, 2011. It was attended by more than 30 engaged couples in Singapore. I'm sure most of them will agree, we got more than what we expected. It may be boring at times, but undeniably it'll be helpful for US!

For those who may be curious what happens in Catholic Engaged Encounter sessions, I suggest just go for it. Have an open mind for whatever might happen, you won't regret it. It does not matter if you have not set the date yet, what matters is you are truly committed to each other.

In case you don't know, Catholic Engaged Encounter is an international marriage preparation course approved by the catholic church worldwide. It is a compulsary stay-in weekend, a time for the couple to be together, to talk honestly about their future lives. If you're based abroad, check with your church, if they can accept CEE certificate of attendance for the pre-cana seminar requirement. For more information, click here.

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Pretty little things


Mini Burgers as hors d'oeuvre

Two-tiered black and white with yellow details as topper. I prefer all edible. :)

Parang champola lang! Good times! :)

Candy bar! :))) Me happy!

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

March wedding updates

Sharing wedding preparation updates as of today, so that everytime I visit our blog, I am reminded of the pending things to do, and suppliers to book.


List of suppliers booked :

1. Church : Magallanes church (booked, 60% dp paid)
2. Reception : Enterprise Center (booked)

3. Caterer : K by Cunanan Catering (booked, dp paid)
    Table Mock-up / Food Tasting Schedule - June 23 (food tasting done by our family, now it's my turn)
4. Photo : Jayson and Joanne Arquiza (booked, dp paid)

    Singapore Prenuptial photoshoot – done last march 22
5. Video : Phoeben Teocson (booked/dp paid)

    Need to provide song list
6. Hotel for preps : Makati Shangrila (to confirm booking)
7. Honeymoon : Shangrila Boracay (to confirm booking)
    Airfare for Honeymoon : via Cebu Pacific (booked, fully paid)
8. Lights and Sound system : Rejectkrew (booked, dp paid)

    Need to provide song list
9. Couturier : Joe San Antonio - bridal, mothers and female entourage gowns (booked, dp paid)
    measurements with Joe (done last feb4)
    first fitting – june 23
10. Flowers for entourage : Vatel Manila (booked bridal bouquet c/o w@w auction, pending revised costing)
11. Coordinator : Perfect 10 weddings (booked, dp paid)
12. HMUA for bride + moms : Razel Pong Niu (booked, dp paid)
13. Souvenir for guests – photobooth : Party Pics Live (booked, dp paid)
14. Invitations : Impress Prints by Calliope – (booked, dp paid)

      Design process on-going. Reply on invitation wordings, entourage list etc.
15. Bridal car : Honda Civic Type R – booked, will borrow from brother of the groom's friend, pay for gas only.


Pending Suppliers and Things to do :

1. Projector and Screen - check availability from reception venue, if none, will canvass
2. Emcee - canvassing, waiting for sample videos from prospective suppliers

3. String Quartet for church and reception - canvassing..
4. Groom's suit (c/o joseph) - will canvass suit makers
5. Suit for entourage (c/o our male entourage)

6. Church and Reception florist - will canvass more suppliers from Dangwa
7. HMUA for the rest of the entourage - will canvass
8. Rings – most probably by Love & Co, will buy around May 2011
9. Cake -  will canvass
10. Mobile bar - will discuss possible upgrade from K's package on June 2011, by juicebox.

11. Gifts for principal sponsors, male entourage, female entourage, flower girls and bearers - still thinking
12. Monograms, STD, WYB - finalizing...

13. Readers List, Song List and Offerors list - will do
14. Guest List - need to review first draft again
15. Reception Program & Reception Layout - will discuss with Darlene & K respectively.

16. Do remaining paperworks

Reminder to self : Finish pending ASAP, don't procrastinate!!! 5 months to go!

Friday, March 25, 2011

Our Prenuptial Photo Shoot in Singapore

I know I always apologize for not blogging as much as I want to, but this time I am really really busy with work and wedding preparations. I was overwhelmed by how exhausting it can get. Especially if you are based overseas. The agony of not being able to properly coordinate things, when some suppliers NEVER answer emails, ahhhh the frustations keep on coming!!

But then of course, I need to look at the bright side. I will marry the love of my life. I have to keep in mind that our wedding is only for a day, we need to prepare more for our marriage, which is for a lifetime.


We had our prenup last tuesday, March 22 here in Singapore. It was so much fun! Jayson and Joanne Arquiza scheduled their trip cum family vacation here, to accomodate 3 couples for an out-of country photo shoot. It's supposed to be a 3-hour shoot only, but it extended up to 5 hours. We had 3 location and 3 set of clothes, 1st in Emerald Hill, 2nd in Marina Bay Sands, and the last is at Sentosa Boardwalk.

This was taken from one of the shophouses in Emerald Hill, Orchard.



Our prenup experience with Jayson and Joanne Arquiza, reaffirmed my faith in them. They are so nice, down-to-earth, so much fun to be with. Most especially during the dinner after the shoot, we had the chance to spend more time together. It's like talking to a long lost friend! I bet on the wedding day itself, we will have so much fun! I'm so excited!

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Casual or Formal???!

I've been thinking about this for so long, since the day we decided to have New York as our theme. Should we have an offbeat, casual brooklyn-inspired wedding? Or should we have an elegant, formal manhattan-inspired wedding?

I came across quite a number of New York weddings, mostly in Style me Pretty website, and I can honestly say I love the details of casual just as much as the formal! I'm so confused!!!!

See the contrast of the pictures below from Style Me Pretty.



Can we pull it off and have a mix of both casual and formal???!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

February wedding updates

As of today, I just want to share to you the suppliers we already booked for our wedding. I may be a little behind, since I am based overseas and cannot do as much as I'd like to from here in Singapore. I'm hoping that our bookings will improve significantly when I go home for the Chinese New Year Holidays.

List of suppliers booked :

1. Church - booked, DP & reservation paid!
2. Reception - booked!
3. Caterer - booked and DP paid during the Getting Married bridal fair!
4. Photographer - booked and DP paid!
5. Videographer - booked and DP paid!
6. Coordinator - booked and DP paid!
7. Wedding Couturier - booked thru w@w auction and will sign contract on feb!
8. Entourage Florist - booked thru w@w auction and will meet on feb!

Pending suppliers to canvass and book ASAP :

1. Church & Reception Florist - might go to dangwa and canvass on feb!
2. Invitation - will meet suppliers on feb!
3. HMUA - trial make-up on feb!
4. Photobooth - i have a supplier in mind, but thinking of waiting until the bridal fair..
5. Bridal Car - will meet with supplier on feb!
6. Lights and Sound System - canvassing...
7. Entertainment - canvassing...
8. Souvenirs - have not decided yet...
9. Hotel for Preps - canvassing..
10. LCD Projector Supplier - canvassing...
11. Wedding Rings - will canvass here in Singapore! most probably we will choose Love & Co brand.

Meanwhile, I have to finish doing my save the date and WYB cards. It's been pending for such a long time!

  Did I miss any detail? Wedding preparations is getting crazier by the day, but still so much fun!

Friday, January 21, 2011

Baby Steps to a Healthy Living

I found this on Jennie Epperson's blog. I hope it inspires all of us, to get back in shape for the wedding.

You hear a lot about living a healthy lifestyle, but what does that mean? In general, a healthy person doesn't smoke, is at a healthy weight, eats healthy and exercises. Sounds simple, doesn't it?
The trick to healthy living is making small changes... taking more steps, adding fruit to your cereal, having an extra glass of water... these are just a few ways you can start living healthy without drastic changes.

Exercise

One of the biggest problems in America today is lack of activity. We know it's good for us but avoid it like the plague either because we're used to being sedentary or afraid that exercise has to be vigorous to be worth our time. The truth is, movement is movement and the more you do, the healthier you'll be. Even moderate activities like chores, gardening and walking can make a difference.
Just adding a little movement to your life can:

• Reduce the risk of heart disease, stroke and diabetes
• Improve joint stability
• Increase and improve range of movement
• Help maintain flexibility as you age
• Maintain bone mass
• Prevent osteoporosis and fractures
• Improve mood and reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression
• Enhance self esteem
• Improve memory in elderly people
• Reduce stress

So, even if you opt for small changes and a more modest weight loss, you can see the benefits are still pretty good. One study has found that just a 10% weight reduction helped obese patients reduce blood pressure, cholesterol and increase longevity.

Simple Ways to Move Your Body

You can start the process of weight loss now by adding a little more activity to your life. If you're not ready for a structured program, start small. Every little bit counts and it all adds up to burning more calories.

• Turn off the TV. Once a week, turn off the TV and do something a little more physical with your family. Play games, take a walk... almost anything will be more active than sitting on the couch.
• Walk more. Look for small ways to walk more. When you get the mail, take a walk around the block, take the dog for an extra outing each day or walk on your treadmill for 5 minutes before getting ready for work.
• Do some chores. Working in the garden, sweeping the floor... these kinds of activities may not be 'vigorous' exercise, but they can keep you moving while getting your house in order.
• Pace while you talk. When you're on the phone, pace around or even do some cleaning while gabbing. This is a great way to stay moving while doing something you enjoy.
• Be aware. Make a list of all the physical activities you do on a typical day. If you find that the bulk of your time is spent sitting, make another list of all the ways you could move more--getting up each hour to stretch or walk, walk the stairs at work, etc.

Eating Well
Eating a healthy diet is another part of the healthy lifestyle. Not only can a clean diet help with weight management, it can also improve your health and quality of life as you get older.

• Eat more fruits. Add it to your cereal, your salads or even your dinners
• Sneak in more veggies. Add them wherever you can--a tomato on your sandwich, peppers on your pizza, or extra veggies in your pasta sauce. Keep pre-cut or canned/frozen veggies ready for quick snacks.
• Switch your salad dressing. If you eat full-fat dressing, switch to something lighter and you'll automatically eat less calories.
• Eat low-fat or fat-free dairy. Switching to skim milk or fat free yogurt is another simple way to eat less calories without having to change too much in your diet.
• Make some substitutes. Look through your cabinets or fridge and pick 3 foods you eat every day. Write down the nutritional content and, the next time you're at the store, find lower-calorie substitutes for just those 3 items.

Creating a healthy lifestyle doesn't have to mean drastic changes. In fact, drastic changes almost always lead to failure. Making small changes in how you live each day can lead to big rewards, so figure out what you can to be healthy today.

If you agree, please reblog.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Yellow and Black Wedding Mood Boards

Spent the last few minutes of my thursday afternoon browsing the internet for some yellow and black wedding ideas. I just thought of sharing a few of my favorites. Hope you find this helpful.




Friday, January 14, 2011

Wedding Designer : Joe San Antonio

Sorry for the lack of wedding updates.. we went home last December 22-January 4. It was a very busy but fun-filled Christmas vacation for us. We even managed to do the "pamamanhikan" already, more kwento on that on a separate post.

From the time we went back to Singapore, I've been very busy sending e-mails to suppliers. I honestly haven't done much wedding preparations last December. I also know that most of them is very busy because December is considered a peak-season for weddings. I called some of them for questions and updates, then I met with my wedding gown designer, Joe San Antonio last 30 December.



I was surpised to see that she was very young, I suppose even younger than me. Joe was very nice and accomodating. She was open to my ideas, always wanting to know what I want. But she still makes her comment on styles that don't flatter my body type. Her style is very hip and modern.

She gave me 2 sketches after I've shown her my pegs and we had a discussion. It was very pretty but there was no "this is it" feeling yet. Hehehe! We will continue working on it, because I believe in her talent.

What convinced me to book her is when she said that she continues to innovate styles that she can call her own. She plays with fabric, and does not do much beadworks. I LIKE!

Monday, December 20, 2010

DIY : Save the Date

This is my first attempt for a DIY project. Thank God for weddingpaperdivas customizable templates for making my life easy. Here it is, let me know what you think.



Monday, December 13, 2010

K by Cunanan Food Tasting

Back to regular programming... Sorry for the late post, my family and Mr. JE's family had initial food tasting per our request last November 30.

I commend K by Cunanan Catering for maintaining their personalized service, which starts at the initial food tasting. You will really feel taken care of, since our AE Lace Tan, personally supervised the food tasting. The venue is at Kaye's beautiful house in Ayala Heights, Quezon City, you could not get anymore personalized than that.

Mr. JE and I felt bad that we cannot personally attend to this. You see, K by Cunanan doesn't do foodtasting on the month of December, because they are very busy during this time. But our next scheduled trip is on December, and January might be a little late to do food tasting, with more than 7 months to go. We gambled and asked our families to do it, because we trust their judgement.

Based on my sister's kwento, they liked the hoisin chicken wrap, beef back ribs with baby potatoes, honey nut prawns, and apple crumble with vanilla ice cream the most, out of all the dishes. The rest of the dishes got mixed reviews. The fish, was a bit hard, but maybe that's how it's cooked since it's grilled. The salad was bitter according to Mr. JE's mommy because she did not like the red cabbage.

All of these are only minor comments, I still love K. We will just customize the menu according to our liking. What can I say, I fell in love by their understated elegance styling. I believe they can definitely help me execute my New York Theme. I can't wait to taste their food!


Hoisin chicken wrap, vietnamese spring rolls and fried spinach and feta ravioli


Barbeque Chicken Salad

Carrot Rice

Grilled Red Snapper, Mango Salsa and Coconut Cream

Japanes Rolled Chicken

Beef Back Ribs with back potatoes

Honey Nut Prawns

Apple crumble with Vanilla ice cream, panna cotta with mango, Tiramisu

Update : Mr. JE and I decided not to do food tasting with other caterers anymore. I discovered that Mr. JE fell in love with K's style too! How cute! We will be booking K by Cunanan during the bridal fair on January 2011, in order to avail the freebies. Meanwhile, Lace agreed on pencil booking the date for us until then. Happiness! :)

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Blog Loving : Style Me Pretty

I admit I've been a delinquent blogger, but I've been so busy at work that when I get home, my mind goes blank and can't think of any topic to blog about. I know I have so many backlogs, but bear with me as I get my groove back on wedding preparations ang blogging...

Meanwhile, let me share to you details that I came across from my favorite wedding website as of the moment, Style Me Pretty. I could browse this site for hours!!!!! Loving California & of course New York City Weddings. Very Chic! :)


(picture from Stylemepretty website)

(picture from Stylemepretty website)
(picture from Stylemepretty website)
(picture from Stylemepretty website)


Happy Weekend everyone!!!! May we all never run out of inspiration. :)

Saturday, November 27, 2010

Jayson and Joanne Arquiza

First of all, congratulations to Jayson and Joanne Arquiza for making it to the Top 5 Wedding Suppliers for the year 2010 by Weddings at Work. Also to Phoeben Teocson and Vatel Manila. I got to know Redefine Weddings because my college batchmate got them as photographer for their wedding. I love their style, very natural and candid!

picture from Jayson and Joanne website


Since then, I've been a lurker at their website, always on the look out for natural and candid sets by J&J. Right after we got engaged, I immediately inquired and luckily they are still available for our wedding date.

Months after that first e-mail conversation, we met them at Starbucks Paragon Mall in Orchard last October. Coincidentally, they were here at that time for a photography seminar. We instantly clicked, it was like talking to a long lost friend.

So excited for the prenup, I know it will be a blast to have them as our photographer!

Monday, November 22, 2010

I'm officially engaged!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Forgive the massive exclamation points, I'm just very happy to be wearing this lovely heart-shaped diamond ring on my finger. Mr. JE popped the question over lunch yesterday as we were about to have dessert.

I was expecting that he will propose (officially) on December, but to say that I did not hope for it, would be a lie. You see, we've been planning our wedding for months now. Eversince, we told our families of our plans of getting married next year.

The official proposal happened at Rise, a buffet-style restaurant, located at the lobby of Marina Bay Sands Hotel. We initially planned on having breakfast but I learned that it's only open for hotel guests.

Anyway, we went for lunch and we are seated near the buffet. Because we went there with an empty stomach, I can't wait to eat. Sorry PG (patay gutom) mode! Hahaha.

The unsuspecting me just enjoyed the lunch buffet which includes sushi and sashimi bar, tandoori station, pasta, noodles and many more. I loved the carbonara and the california maki! I was even eyeing for the chocolate fountain even before I finished the main course. And if you know me personally, I just love chocolates!!

When it's Mr. JE's turn for the dessert buffet, it took him a while but I did not suspect anything, since I am still enjoying my food. When he came back, I stood up because I saw they refilled the strawberry beside the chocolate fountain. But he stopped me, and told me to look at his plate.

There it was, the RING!!! I was stunned, I honestly don't know how to react. But without a word, I sat down, and waited for him to say something... It was all a blur, I just wish somebody did capture that moment on video, to see how did I react or what did I say exactly. I just remember him saying the magic word, "Will you marry me?" Hehehe!

I did not even remember saying yes to him. The next thing I knew, the RING (pictures to follow) was already on my ring finger, and I'm in LOVE (& Co) with it!


P.S. He told me, that the first word that came out of my mouth when I saw the ring was... "Kukunin ko na ba ito?" Hahahaha! How anti-climactic of me! I just made him re-enact the moment a few minutes after, when we were finished with the buffet and already outside the hotel, in full view of the Singapore CBD.

Finally, I said, "A thousand times, YES YES YES!" It's so surreal. 

Saturday, November 20, 2010

W@W Silent Auction

I was deeply (OA?!) saddened that I lost my bid for a CA design team bridal gown during those last few seconds. Huhuhu!

Ms. Benz' sent an email that the items which did not meet the reserve price, will be auctioned again. But this time it will be a silent auction, meaning you only get to bid once.

Luckily, I won Joe San Antonio GC worth 20k and Vatel Manila Peonies Bridal Bouquet worth 10k! Yey!! I saved 13k, because I got it less than what it's worth. Happy happy!

I love being a w@wie!

(picture from Joe San Antonio website)

(picture from Vatel Manila website)

Monday, November 15, 2010

W@W Auction

I'm hesitant to write a sad post here, but I figured w@wies can learn a thing or two about my experience in the W@W 2010 Auction.

When I read Ms. Benz's thread about the W@W auction, I got excited but I don't really know what to expect. I read the rules and Q&A(s) carefully. It started November 11 and ended on November 14.

On the first day, I placed a bid on the bridal bouquet... 2nd day on the bridal gown. It did not help that I was too busy at work during the duration of the auction, so when the weekend came, all I want to do is REST. But I still have to participate in the auction.

On the last day, I placed a bid on a videographer's mini movie, but that did not reach the reserve price. Same goes with the bridal bouquet. The saddest thing, somebody outbidded me on the bridal gown. Just when I thought I could finally have my bridal gown couturier. Sad. Sad.

Here are some lessons I learned :

1. If possible, wait until the w@w auction before booking your suppliers. I did not know about the auction beforehand, so when I saw a good deal of my photo and video suppliers there... Sayang naman!

2. Get a high-speed internet connection. This could work to your advantage during the last few minutes of the auction. Open multiple tabs and get ready with your username and password in case somebody outbidded you the last minute.

3.  Discuss how much and which items you are bidding to, with your fiancee. Remember, you must agree first, before you place a bid.

4. Do not be overwhelmed, read each item description carefully. Some items require you to check with supplier's availability first.

5. Bid only if you have the means to pay for it, and if you want it. It helps to research each supplier before placing a bid.

This is all I can remember on the top of my head, I will add more if I can think of something more.

Goodluck!

Saturday, November 13, 2010

Our Wedding Theme : New York

(picture from ILOVENY website)

New York! New York!
Mr. JE adores all things related to NY.
While we were aboard a double decker bus, we were listening to Empire State of Mind by Alicia Keys, i had a light bulb moment...

Why not use NY as our wedding theme? It could definitely work, because Magallanes Church is very modern. Very Urban and Chic.

And the rest is history... Ideas galore!!!

P.S.  I get ideas from this ILOVENY website, since honestly we have not been to NY.  We have to make lots of research research!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Magallanes Church

I've always wanted to get married in Tagaytay, especially when I saw this quaint little church in Canyon Woods. Very intimate. But after we saw Magallanes Church in a bridal Magazine, we knew this is our church. Very modern and beautiful architecture!



(pictures from Magallanes Church website)

It's a plus factor that Magallanes Church is located in Makati City. Where we spent most of our time as a couple, whether it's an after work date, or window shopping in Greenbelt.

Our infatuation was affirmed, when we visited the church last September 2010. It was love at first sight for us, I could definitely see myself walking down that aisle. They were prepping up the church for a wedding the time we visited, and I loved the flower arrangements!

Kilig mode! Love love love! 

P.S. Ms. Cathy of the parish office is so nice too! Very bubbly and easy to deal with. Which reminds me, have to start working on the church requirements, oops! hehehe!

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Perfect 10 Weddings

Let's do this backwards, shall we? I will let you know how I found each of my suppliers, including the ones that I booked already. Just this afternoon, I told Mr. JE that the main purpose of creating this blog is to help future bride-to-be(s) in their wedding preparations. After getting engaged, I know how clueless we all can be. It's a way of giving back, because w@wies' wedding blogs helped me a lot too! And of course, I want to chronicle my own wedding preparations.

(logo from Perfect 10 Weddings website)

The first wedding supplier I booked is my wedding coordinator, Darlene Tan of Perfect 10 Weddings. I joined weddings at work (w@w) even before we announced that we are getting married to our respective  families. The first week, I was just lurking through each thread, learning how to interact in a very very active forum like w@w. Imagine, more than one thousand messages per day?!

This particular thread about Darlene caught my attention, a lot of w@wies were raving about how OC, nice and prompt she is. Of course, I emailed her! And she responded to me within a day. She even apologized for replying late, that's how prompt she is.

We set a meeting for her and my sister after she got back from Singapore to celebrate my birthday. That was around August 2010. As you may already guessed, yes, I'm an overseas bride-to-be from Singapore. My sister / maid of honor instantly liked with Darlene! They were all praises for each other, my sister said that their meeting stretched to 2 hours, and was just cut short because she had another client to meet. 

The next day, Darlene emailed me that "parang bride si Mabel (sister), she knew exactly what you wanted, it must be because how close you are as sisters..." I knew right there, that I will book her na, so I asked my sister to pay the downpayment, immediately after we pencil-booked with Magallanes church.